DATING SYSTEMS SELL TO MEN (based on the claims of predictability) BUT DON'T WORK
WHY SYSTEMS DON'T WORK
WHY SYSTEMS DON'T WORK
any women a system works on will take future convincing because she never had conviction of her own emotional truth so even if it does work in the short run it will likely fall apart in the long run staying together will require future interventions of unique manipulations. Do you really want a women you have to run a system on to keep? Is that someone you will respect?
Men are attracted to wanting a system that works. This is part of masculine energy. So those who claim to have a system to get a women to like you,..... SELL REALLY REALLY WELL but do not work. Why? Because every person is slightly different and approaching a women with routines is detectable. Like this sale pitch below.
DATING TECHNIQUES SELL TO WOMEN (based on the claims of emotional satisfaction) BUT DON'T WORK
any man tricked is not really committed anyway so even if it does work in the short run it will likely fall apart in the long run staying together will require future interventions of unique manipulations. Do you really want a man you have to manipulate on to keep? Is that someone you will respect?
DATING TECHNIQUES SELL TO WOMEN (based on the claims of emotional satisfaction) BUT DON'T WORK
any man tricked is not really committed anyway so even if it does work in the short run it will likely fall apart in the long run staying together will require future interventions of unique manipulations. Do you really want a man you have to manipulate on to keep? Is that someone you will respect?
I think I told you this before…
But I used to be a SUPER PRUDE
when it came to guys I really liked…
Because, again, I didn’t want him to
think I was a “hoe” or anything…
So I’d always be more sexxually
reserved than how I am with you in here
haha ;-)
(In fact EVERY girl is like this when she
REALLY likes a guy, remember?)
But when my man now and I started
talking…which was ONLY via text at
first…
I started…doing…RIDICULOUSLY
slutty things at his every command O_O
(AHH! Don’t judge lol!)
This may surprise you, though…
When he would start turning up the heat
through text…he almost never came up
with new texts hahaha
So, yes, I was a sucker for the same
sh*t EVERY TIME…!
And truth be told he could’ve used the
same texts on OTHER girls…
But either way I was texting him how
badly I wanted his c0ck in my mouth
and sending him “Hump Day” pics in
no time lol!!
Which means almost every text he sent
was LITERALLY pre-written…
…and furthermore, *proven* to always
get me to get his little sex slave ;-)
And after careful analysis of all the past
stuff he’d used on me before…
I found a guy who outlined this entire
“proven” way to get girls hooked and hot
and hopelessly devoted to you and only
you…
Sure it is possible to learn something from this person's system. Absolutely. What? That is going to be up to you because each of you are different from me.
The biggest mistake I can put words to is how this assumes there is one fixed approach that will work on every woman. I am a man and I can feel my own desire to have one fail safe approach that will work. Even though I see the failure point I'm still attracted to the hope of a simple method I can master. Living and mastering a dynamic ever changing set of interactions with women is daunting and seems like too much work for an efficiency focused man like me.
The second biggest mistake is how this caters to the hope I can get others to do what I want them to do. That I can be the center of the world. This injects a lack of holding space for the freewill of others. This approach rejects respecting others as sovereign individuals. It re-enforces an masculine authoritarian mind set. By dismissing the negotiation/mediation/discussion approach, it reduces possible solutions to only those currently known. Engaging in a dynamic interaction gives rise to new thoughts due to seeing new view points. It is hard to describe dynamic systems. So you can see it is nearly impossible to sell them. Mastering dynamic systems is like Mastering a martial art fighting technique. It takes years of constant practice. And yes, there are simple subsets that are teachable and sellable. Most mistake mastering the lowest level as having mastered the whole art form. And of course that is what the sellers encourage you to think. But when the student goes out to practice in the dynamic world of life. The success is limited
The biggest mistake I can put words to is how this assumes there is one fixed approach that will work on every woman. I am a man and I can feel my own desire to have one fail safe approach that will work. Even though I see the failure point I'm still attracted to the hope of a simple method I can master. Living and mastering a dynamic ever changing set of interactions with women is daunting and seems like too much work for an efficiency focused man like me.
The second biggest mistake is how this caters to the hope I can get others to do what I want them to do. That I can be the center of the world. This injects a lack of holding space for the freewill of others. This approach rejects respecting others as sovereign individuals. It re-enforces an masculine authoritarian mind set. By dismissing the negotiation/mediation/discussion approach, it reduces possible solutions to only those currently known. Engaging in a dynamic interaction gives rise to new thoughts due to seeing new view points. It is hard to describe dynamic systems. So you can see it is nearly impossible to sell them. Mastering dynamic systems is like Mastering a martial art fighting technique. It takes years of constant practice. And yes, there are simple subsets that are teachable and sellable. Most mistake mastering the lowest level as having mastered the whole art form. And of course that is what the sellers encourage you to think. But when the student goes out to practice in the dynamic world of life. The success is limited
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