Alpha Leadership? (the new whole man is upgraded to the conscious human)

Old thinking at it's best posed alpha leadership as an authority but one that is not shared.

The conscious new way of being has the confidence to lead when called on and share power decision making.

In more depth.....

He/She can flow between leading and following as the moment call for.  He/She can flow between masculine and feminine as the situation is best served.   Input of offered sources (opinions) is considered and freedom is offer for others to make different decisions.  But the leader continues on his/her path as their inner authority confirms.  Force is not used to coerce others to follow.  Shared decision making (consensus agreement) happens when a unified front or effort is required.   Minority Dissent is handled by invitation to leave the group.  Majority dissent is handled by group consensus.  Leadership is fluid and is shared by several men and women as individual talents are recognized.

This subject and the definition of being an authoritative leader 

(you don't have to refer to it as "alpha" if you personally choose 

not to), is of extreme importance to me, because it's the 

foundation of what I teach. I aim to provide methods, thoughts 

and knowledge for men to become what I refer to as "whole 

men" and to be respected, admired, and interesting to the 

women in their life and/or their wife, their co-workers & 

clients, friends and family. 

And this has NOTHING, absolutely NOTHING, to do with being some 

overbearing, egomaniac or a jerk in any form. That is the opposite of what 

I teach and it's also the opposite of what a true alpha is, and a true dom 

is. 

Yes, there are a lot of imposters out there, but they are nothing more than 

insecure bullies and they are a looooooooong ways from being the real 

deal. 

Here are two of the comments from men who truly understand this & 

practice this: 

#1: DOMINANCE is definitely KEY for a man to exert himself as an AUTHORITY 

figure throughout his life! When it comes to women, a dominant man 

AUTOMATICALLY draws all sorts of ladies into his life - simply by going about his 

everyday business, accomplishing his goals, and enjoying life to the FULLEST! I 

KNOW this to be true, by how I go about APPRECIATING, and CHERISHING my 

every days!!!!!

#2: Being an alpha male isn't about constantly demonstrating that you are alpha 

through bullish, blustery, or bombastic behavior; it is about exuding an aura of 

dominance and confidence in such a manner that women are naturally drawn to the 

alpha personality and are naturally inclined to submit to it.

See, these two men, like many of you, "get it".

You may recall an article I shared back on April 13th, where I discussed 

positioning your dominance & charm. In that article I used the example of 

chimpanzees, operating in their wild, natural state:

Like with almost all mammals, there is one appointed to be the alpha 

leader, which is the strongest male. Usually in chimpanzee families

there is also a 2nd and 3rd ranking male- they have some power, but

not near as much as the leader. The alpha male is authoritative, 

demanding yet not pushy, stable, secure, and confident. He isn't 

continuously jumping around,making noise, or creating havoc and chaos. 

Instead, he is quiet, goes about his business, has everything in order, and 

all of the other chimpanzees respect him- knowing that he could get 

aggressive if needed and when it is called for. It is interesting to me to 

watch the 2nd and 3rd ranking males. The 2nd ranking jumps around 

more than the alpha male, makes more noise and acts more obnoxiously 

at times... but still not as much as the 3rd ranking male. The lower the 

ranking, the more loud and obnoxious each male chimpanzee is. 

And, this is pretty much how it is with humans. Go to any bar on any 

given night, and you'll see several men who think they're hot stuff, puffing 

their chest, acting obnoxious, yelling and being loud, and doing 

everything opposite of true alpha, or "whole man", behavior. These men 

also tend to lose the respect of women quickly (if they ever do earn it in 

the first place) and they can't hold the attention & respect of others. 

People get tired of being around them, it gets old.  

Remember, to be an alpha, or a "dom"....

You want to dress properly. Not necessarily expensively, just properly.

You want to be organized & in control of your environment.

You want to cultivate your taste in cuisine, wine, and the finer things.

You want to be "sharp" with witty comments & comebacks.

You want to be a gentleman & practice chivalry (but never a pushover).

You want to develop your own style: clothing style, lifestyle, etc.

You want to always have a calm, collected way of handling issues.

You want to maintain high standards for yourself, and others.

You want to stay "up to date" on important subject matter.

You want to always be in control of your temper & emotions.

You want to eat healthily.

You want to get enough sleep. 

You want to be a romantic. (Again, not a pushover, but a true romantic.)

You want to provide her/ women with intense, passionate, lovemaking.

A man who has high standards for himself & practices self-discipline, is a 

man who will most likely to be more active, stay better rested and 

therefore clearheaded, and will also stay "well read" & informed, which 

will position him for promotions & growth (financial, career, and 

emotional growth). He'll naturally move forward. And, women 

will be naturally attracted to him. Like the point made in the first 

response I shared: Go about appreciating and cherishing your days, 

accomplish your goals, and live your life to the fullest. A man who does 

this is a respectable and admired man- by women, friends, family, plus 

colleagues, clients or employers.