If he really wanted me BullShit

In short, the conscious man wastes not his energy trying to change you or or mind.  He will not hunt/pursue you endlessly.  If you are not putting some work/effort into the relationship he will move on.  Below is the old un-evolved thinking. This thought that if he really really wanted me he would do anything to get you.  Is part of the princess wanting to be swept off her feet by a hero.  This disneyland thinking,   A conscious man wants a women  who will take care of herself, be responsible for herself, not be so passive all the time.  He respects your NO.  He may still want to be your hero at times.  But he sees other people he can help that do not require saving or so much effort.

A conscious man wants a better integrated woman than the princess. He wants one who has learned to appropriately express her masculine as well as her feminine.  Demanding that your hero crawl through broken glass to win you only leaves you with a hurting and broken man. The conscious man who loves and respects himself will not cripple or lessen himself just to GET you because he has bigger, vaster, plans he is in service of.

This is princess behavior not the queen.

It seems like the little girl with unresolved Daddy issues (like being spoiled) instead of the conscious woman who wants an equal partnership.

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Hello hello, Clark ;-)

OK so this past week I’ve been telling

you all about these Girly Gossip

Sessions I’ve been having…

And this LAST one I had with my friend

Latin Lisa REALLY takes the cake

So she met this guy on Tinder…

And has been talking to

FOREVERRRRRR NOW!

Meaning they talk ALL THE TIME.

So I’m on the phone with her today and

she says to me, 

“I don’t get it…he’s not really talking to

me anymore…he’s totally over me isn’t

he?!”

In my opinion, he is based on her even

THINKING it…so I tell her to send me

screen shots of their texts…

And ya wanna know what I found?

Him: I’d like to take you to dinner some

time this week when are you free?

Latin Lisa: Oh I’m super busy this

week…maybe next week!

*Next week*

Him: Hey gorgeous I know this great

restaurant on the water in Malibu, you

free Friday or Saturday?

Latin Lisa: Sorryyyyyy I have plans

those days!

So I asked Latin Lisa, “You turned him

down TWICE what do you expect?!”

Ya wanna know her ANSWER?!

Latin Lisa says to me, “Well

WHATEVER if he really WANTS ME

he’ll do whatever it takes to have me…

THAT’S a real man!

Plus I’m not easy…so this just shows he

wants an easy girl.”

WHAAAAAT?!

Can you believe Latin Lisa said AND

believes that?!

Sadly, I can…

Listen…as ladies our BIGGEST FEAR is

for you to see us as EASY…

And in Latin Lisa’s case…

Some girls just take it WAAAAY too far!

But…

BUT…!!!!

She has a point.

If you want us…COME AND GET US!

And if you DO have at LEAST our
attention...don't drop the ball just cuz you're

not the best texter!

Showing us you WANT US is the only

thing that’s gonna separate you from all

the other people in our lives…

From every other stranger out there…

From every other DOG out there!

Most dogs sit around WAITING for their

treat.

Wolves go out and GET IT.

And you KNOW that’s what you are ;-)

Granted…

It’s easier said and done.