Friday, November 25, 2016

success, happiness and the conscious man (needs story example)

The conscious man is aware of so much more than the unconscious man.  Some call this mindfulness, other call this being present, a popular label is being in the now.  Internal awareness like emotions physical sensation, intent and motivations,. . . . external awareness like environment, people's reactions, group dynamics,.......

How does the conscious human differ from the unaware human when it comes to happiness and success?

It is in his/her ability to embrace every moment more deeply. (needs story)

Like relationship beginnings,,,...... both people more deeply look into, pay more attention to, attend more closely to.... each other.

This more complete absorption into every moment, event, person is the key to the conscious humans happiness.  This ability to become totally absorbed into what ever he/she puts their attention on is the secret to their success.

While the less aware human complain about something the more aware gets busy and curious about what is happening.  The total attention allows seeing patterns, connection and  having insights that alters his/her interactions to a positive effect.

While the less aware human give up, blames others and finds less to do the more aware gets interested in learning, growing, experimenting.  The 110% presence creates opportunity, fosters new relationships and alters perspective with new information so he/she can try again.

Unconscious expectations equal unhappiness and frustration.  The conscious human has worked diligently too remove, notice, become aware of the expectations created by him/herself.  When things do not go optimally the first thing they do is reflect and assess themselves for what expectations they created.  They take responsibility and take steps to clean up any residual fallout their unconscious action built on unconscious expectation created.

conscious is grateful for every new awareness and often seeks out more.
while the less conscious seems to avoid any new thought or points of view.



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