Tuesday, September 28, 2021
women need to undertand
Mem have thoughts (Logic) and need reapect
respecting their thoughts (logic) is not a small thing
men need to understand
Women have emotions and need reassurance
emotions are not small things to be overlooked
Sunday, September 12, 2021
LOVE bonding differences
Women bond through caring and sharing
eventually emotions get involved snd they call it love
when this engages, women are willing to sacrifice themselves for you
Men bond through competing and beating
eventually emotions get involved snd they call it the brotherhood
when this engages, men are willing to sacrifice themselves for you
Women are expecting men to fall in love like they do and it is creating expectaation thty do not match where men are in ther bonding to their mate. It is projection at work.
MEN need to...
learn to not always need space
...to communiate clearly
... hold space for their partner
... get curious about how she works
... get curious about how YOU work
... receive external feedback
... when to surrender
... what is their bonding method
... consider and take action on the needs of others
... stop using logivc to control women or get their way
... manage their ego in a healthy way
Friday, September 10, 2021
Women need to ...
learn to be more direct in asking for what they need/want/desire from men.
criticizism does not work with men.
passive agressive does not work.
:earning to be aware of what they need and ask.
Balance emotion with logic
Be happy for no reason
not rely on a partner to make them happy
know what turns them on
comminucate that
... stop using emotions to control men and get their way
... mamage their emotions in a healthy way
Monday, July 19, 2021
Gender gap expectations
Men marry women expecting they WILL never chamge. Because men do not change much.
Women marry men dexpecting they WILL change. Because womem do change.
Friday, July 2, 2021
Insecurity
One hidden relationship killer is your insecurties.
You think you are ok, and your are until something triggers your insecurity.
For her it is doubting her self worth? For him it is doubting his confidence?
If either of you latch on to a relationship to coverup your insecurities, you will only experience them later when some trigger comes up. She might use loving someone to offset her lowself esteem. He might use work to offset his low self respect. Either way it is a long cut to relationship problems.
One where you get to use the other person as an escaoegoat for not seeing your own issue.
You think you are ok, and your are until something triggers your insecurity.
For her it is doubting her self worth? For him it is doubting his confidence?
If either of you latch on to a relationship to coverup your insecurities, you will only experience them later when some trigger comes up. She might use loving someone to offset her lowself esteem. He might use work to offset his low self respect. Either way it is a long cut to relationship problems.
One where you get to use the other person as an escaoegoat for not seeing your own issue.
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